Power Law 10 – Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky
Just in Time # 421 - Adapted from Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power
Don’t get infected by the misery of others. Avoid it at all costs; it’s contagious.
Surrounding yourself with unhappy or unlucky individuals can unknowingly invade your mindset and derail your pursuit of success. Such energy can pull you into a vortex of negativity, resulting in self-doubt and despair.
Recognising this dynamic can safeguard your mental and emotional well-being.
Recognise the Impact of Energy
Every individual emits energy, which can significantly influence you.
Happy, successful people radiate optimism and ambition, while the unhappy often perpetuate their woes. Acknowledging the emotional environment around you allows you to choose wisely who you socialise with. The strength lies in awareness; evaluate how each person impacts your emotional and mental state.
Set Boundaries for Your Well-being
It is imperative to create boundaries and learn to say 'no' to those who bring relentless negativity into your life. This may involve distancing yourself from family members or friends who consistently display pessimism. Understand that this doesn’t mean abandoning them; rather, it reflects self-care and the recognition that your time and energy are precious commodities.
Seek Out Positive Influences
Rather than absorbing negativity, actively pursue those whose drive inspires you. Surround yourself with individuals who have faced challenges with resilience and emerged stronger. These are the people who will propel you forward. Learning from their experiences inevitably breeds hope and motivation.
Realise the Power of Choice
Ultimately, you have control over your social ecosystem. It is a conscious choice to distance yourself from negativity and embrace positivity. When you identify and understand the various energies surrounding you, you can dictate your own atmosphere. The path to your success is far clearer when you prioritise your mental landscape.
In life, not everyone will align with your dreams, and that is okay.
Choose wisely and remember the undeniable truth: you become who you associate with. Make your alliances count in pursuing your goals.
Justin Spencer-Young